Thorn, Frostflower, and Phyllis Ann Karr
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I had encountered the characters before, in a short story, "Night of the Short Knives," in the Crossing Press anthology The Women Who Walk Through Fire: Women's Fantasy & Science Fiction vol. 2. In the back of that anthology (which the sci-fi library also has), I found the following author's note:
"I met Thorn and Frostflower at a summer writing workshop led by George R. R. Martin in Dubuque, Iowa. Not that they are based on anyone I ever met in 'real life.' Since long before I knew any theory about the Astral Plane, I have believed that characters are real entities who allow writers to use them. Thus, my fiction is a cooperative effort between the characters and myself; but Frostflower and Thorn answered a call for Sword and Sorcery figures in particular." (p. 273)
That note was written in 1990; her first Frostflower title came out in 1980. She's still writing other books today.
Anatomies of Desire
Sep. 7th, 2025 01:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
When I talked about sex, it was often assumed that I didn’t know about sexual abuse, that I didn’t know about violence against women, and that because I chose to celebrate a passion or to describe a passion, I was immune from the anguish of being a woman in this society. [...] My whole life’s work has been saying—along with others—that we cannot only have an anatomy of victimization. We are more than that. We must have an anatomy of desire, of celebration. We must not assume that because a woman speaks about passion she doesn’t know pain.
—Joan Nestle, “A celebration of butch-femme identities in the lesbian community,” A Persistent Desire: A Femme/Butch Reader p. 462
Rogan: Joan Nestle was talking about the power of transgressive female desire, but the quote also rings with me as a trans multiple. As there’s a push within our own ranks towards identifying with trauma, this idea that the only “respectable” way to be or become multiple is to be (preferably sexually) victimized, and as there’s a political push to see trans people’s very existence as sexually abusive to children, I have found power in shamelessly depicting my erotic desires through art.
It took years to reach this point; sexual violence is like a black hole that sucks everything into itself. Every time I write about sex, including this post, I have to delete constant digressions about the damned black hole. Mac and I had to set a rule that Multi Orgasmic would NOT discuss abuse because otherwise it would’ve been about damn near nothing else! And obviously it was a smart choice; Multi Orgasmic is my #2 ebook bestseller. People are clearly hankering for this stuff; they just don’t say so in public, mostly, because true, honest desire is scary. When you want something that badly (sexual or not), that is a vulnerable place to be in, and that vulnerability by nature is uncomfortable to witness. So we ridicule it, trying to end that vulnerability, that honesty, so we don’t have to look ourselves in the face.
If heartbreak HAS been a part of one’s multiplicity, it’s natural to go through a stage where the grief consumes everything. But like a necessary burn, it’s meant to leave a more fertile land behind, ready for new growth. Eventually, you gotta have something besides suffering to hang your sense of self on. Eventually, you need something good to fight FOR, not just something evil to fight AGAINST.
For me, that good stuff includes banging my headmates and making stuff like Multi Orgasmic. Think what it might be for you. What gives you that soul-satisfying feeling? What waters your heartflowers? What is that good thing to fight for?
What brings you to that scary place of wanting?
A follow-up post regarding Angel, Lucy, Nall, and Screwtape
Sep. 4th, 2025 05:44 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
First of all,
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( This post contains discussion of death, fear of insanity and Satan, and ends in the death of all bonds involved. )
2025 September Fan Poll
Sep. 2nd, 2025 03:01 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
As always, anyone can vote (please do!), but LiberaPay and Patreon patrons get double weight for their votes. (Due to Patreon's porn purges, I really encourage you to use LiberaPay, if you get a choice.) If you want to see the blurbs for any of these works, those are here! (You can also leave your requests there; requesting a story or essay is always free!) If you don't have a DW and so can't do the poll, that's okay; just leave your vote in the comments below; anon comments are turned on.
Which works gets the money, and thus posted this month? YOU CHOOSE, readers!
Did you toss LiberaPay/Patreon money my way last month?
What writing gets posted this month?
Infinity Smashed: Born Lucky
5 (19.2%)
Reverend Alpert: the Traveling Exorcist
4 (15.4%)
Henchwench for Hire (F/F supervillainy)
1 (3.8%)
Rutless (trans omegaverse porno)
2 (7.7%)
Flights of Reality (the Cursed City)
1 (3.8%)
Anatomy of a Dance (essay)
6 (23.1%)
The Boy Whose Heart Is Home (teen hardship)
4 (15.4%)
The Battleaxe and the Blood-Eater (pseudo Greco-Roman gladiators)
0 (0.0%)
LB Economics (essay)
14 (53.8%)
Cultiples #1 Afterword (essay made of AAAAAAH)
1 (3.8%)
Rage Against the Regime (LB autobio)
10 (38.5%)
What art/comic/zine gets posted this month?
Cult Comix
4 (16.7%)
Death Watch
4 (16.7%)
How it Was, How It Is
6 (25.0%)
2012 hospital sketchbook
0 (0.0%)
2013 Homeless Year sketchbook
2 (8.3%)
2014 AllFam sketchbook
1 (4.2%)
Protection
7 (29.2%)
2015 early Biff sketchbook
4 (16.7%)
Seductive Beast (Mori/Rawlin silliness)
13 (54.2%)
Wanna buy some banned itch.io books? (not by me!)
Sep. 1st, 2025 11:47 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
(If you're one of the folks who got burned, linked post also has a submission form adding your work to the spreadsheet.)
Story and Essay Back-ups Because of Fuckin' Mississippi
Sep. 1st, 2025 10:44 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Mississippi's requirements are strict:
This act applies only to a digital service provider who provides a digital service that:
(a) Connects users in a manner that allows users to socially interact with other users on the digital service;
(b) Allows a user to create a public, semi-public or private profile for purposes of signing into and using the digital service; and
(c) Allows a user to create or post content that can be viewed by other users of the digital service, including sharing content on:
(i) A message board;
(ii) A chat room; or
(iii) A landing page, video channel or main feed that presents to a user content created and posted by other users.
So this includes Dreamwidth (and all other Livejournal clones), Fanfiction.net, an AOL Instant Messenger chat room, a forum, presumably Patreon and itch.io... but oddly probably not 4chan, since that has no profiles! healthymultiplicity.com is kinda my only option, because the site allows for no social interaction.
I am very sorry for the inconvenience. Having my work accessible to the public is extremely important to me, but man, the past couple months have been pretty rough when it comes to politicians and payment processors getting between me and my willing readers!
Code deploy happening shortly
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Per the dw_news post regarding the MS/TN blocks, we are doing a small code push shortly in order to get the code live. As per usual, please let us know if you see anything wonky.
There is some code cleanup we've been doing that is going out with this push but I don't think there is any new/reworked functionality, so it should be pretty invisible if all goes well.
Princess Angelina and the Dragon, by Renee Carter Hall
Aug. 31st, 2025 06:21 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I know I got some dragon-smoochers as readers, so please enjoy this cute fractured fairy tale story of dragon smoochery!
Comic: Blushing and Scent, 2024
Aug. 31st, 2025 05:05 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Edith Somerville and Violet Ross
Aug. 31st, 2025 04:35 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
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Mississippi site block, plus a small restriction on Tennessee new accounts
Aug. 31st, 2025 12:28 pm![[staff profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png)
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A reminder to everyone that starting tomorrow, we are being forced to block access to any IP address that geolocates to the state of Mississippi for legal reasons while we and Netchoice continue fighting the law in court. People whose IP addresses geolocate to Mississippi will only be able to access a page that explains the issue and lets them know that we'll be back to offer them service as soon as the legal risk to us is less existential.
The block page will include the apology but I'll repeat it here: we don't do geolocation ourselves, so we're limited to the geolocation ability of our network provider. Our anti-spam geolocation blocks have shown us that their geolocation database has a number of mistakes in it. If one of your friends who doesn't live in Mississippi gets the block message, there is nothing we can do on our end to adjust the block, because we don't control it. The only way to fix a mistaken block is to change your IP address to one that doesn't register as being in Mississippi, either by disconnecting your internet connection and reconnecting it (if you don't have a static IP address) or using a VPN.
In related news, the judge in our challenge to Tennessee's social media age verification, parental consent, and parental surveillance law (which we are also part of the fight against!) ruled last month that we had not met the threshold for a temporary injunction preventing the state from enforcing the law while the court case proceeds.
The Tennesee law is less onerous than the Mississippi law and the fines for violating it are slightly less ruinous (slightly), but it's still a risk to us. While the fight goes on, we've decided to prevent any new account signups from anyone under 18 in Tennessee to protect ourselves against risk. We do not need to block access from the whole state: this only applies to new account creation.
Because we don't do any geolocation on our users and our network provider's geolocation services only apply to blocking access to the site entirely, the way we're implementing this is a new mandatory question on the account creation form asking if you live in Tennessee. If you do, you'll be unable to register an account if you're under 18, not just the under 13 restriction mandated by COPPA. Like the restrictions on the state of Mississippi, we absolutely hate having to do this, we're sorry, and we hope we'll be able to undo it as soon as possible.
Finally, I'd like to thank every one of you who's commented with a message of support for this fight or who's bought paid time to help keep us running. The fact we're entirely user-supported and you all genuinely understand why this fight is so important for everyone is a huge part of why we can continue to do this work. I've also sent a lot of your comments to the lawyers who are fighting the actual battles in court, and they find your wholehearted support just as encouraging and motivating as I do. Thank you all once again for being the best users any social media site could ever hope for. You make me proud and even more determined to yell at state attorneys general on your behalf.
A Philosophy of Trouble
Aug. 30th, 2025 05:28 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
If you’ve been around long enough, you have most certainly encountered some very bad outlooks on conflict. Some people out there like to stir up conflict recreationally for its own sake, aiming for outrage on purpose, while others turn up their noses at the idea of ever getting involved, casting nigh all disagreement through the lens of trickery and petulant antagonism. In response to the ubiquity of bad takes on the subject, I want to try and articulate something of my own philosophy: that only by distinguishing problems from trouble can you recognize the uses of trouble for problem-solving.
Crossposted to Pillowfort and Neocities.
( Read more... )ChatGPT Psychosis
Aug. 29th, 2025 12:00 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
So, thanks to
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( The human mind is a delicate thing. You gotta be nice to it. )